Happy Belated Fathers Day

I know I am a day late...Fathers Day was yesterday, but I was busy. I want to say Happy Fathers day to all the fathers out there, especially the two of mine.

Sadly, one is in heaven. My dad passed away very suddenly when I was 14. I still remember the day like it was yesterday. I miss him more and more each day, especially with my wedding coming up. I am not good w/ emotions in front of people so I don't talk about him in detail much.

Fast forward to me being 15/16ish and my mom meeting who at first I thought was the worst person on the planet because well he wasn't my dad. Now he is one of my best friends. My stepdadish (they are not married) Bob has been such an amazing gift to our family. First, he puts up with my mom and took on 3 kids as his own (he has no biological children of his own). There were many times he could of said I am done with this crap, but he didn't (why, I have no idea). He has stayed by my moms side for almost 10 years now and has proved he is not going anywhere.

I also want to wish Michael Happy Fathers day from our fur babies. Just because they are not human doesnt mean he isnt a dad to them. Go ahead, laugh...my mom does. One day (not anytime soon FYI) I cannot wait to wish him a Happy Fathers Day from our human baby.

SURPRISE!

Michael turned 30 on Sunday while we were visiting Pa. Usually we are up there in January for my birthday so we always go to this wing place for dinner with our friends. I came up with the bright idea to throw him a surprise birthday party for his 30th. He was the one who put the thought in my head by saying dont do it! HAHA! Taught him to tell me not to do something :). With LOTS of help from good friends and his family we were able to pull this off. He was surprised that I was able to, I SUCK at surprises. I always give it away because I get excited about it.

There was some hiccups, especially the day of. The day of we went and had lunch with our best man, maid of honor, god daughter, and both sets of parents. Michael had been craving this places ice cream for weeks. He was also REALLY instiant on playing mini golf, but it was around 4 pm and this time and our best man and maid of honor were the party set up people so they had to go. My mom made us leave which really made Michael mad so he became really grumpy. During the day he kept trying to change the place we were going for dinner (I had to put my foot down). We were playing cards with his cousins and grandma (who were suppose to be at the restaurant by 5:30) I kept trying to get Michael to go back to the house to change for dinner so they could go, but he wouldnt let us go! We were able to pull it off, but barely!

Here are some funny photos! He really enjoyed it and was REALLY surprised!

The attendees

Kylee our god daughter

Happy Birthday Michael!

she would not take a picture with him

Happy 30th Birthday!!!

Happy 30th Birthday to my wonderful soon-to-be hubby! He is being a big baby about it, but I am excited for him. I LOVE Birthdays! His sister sent me some funny childhood pictures of Michael (our table numbers are childhood photos) here are a few funny ones! ENJOY! (hahaha hes gonna kill me!)

nervous nelly

I am having surgery tomorrow. Its weird to say, for some reason I have problems saying it out loud. Its outpatient, no big deal surgery, but I have never had surgery before. Never even taken a pill killer before, well besides a tablespoon of hydrocodone syrup on accident - thought it was the cough version...oops.

Tomorrow at 1 pm I will be having a fibroadenoma removed from my right breast. The doc says its noncancerous and no big deal, we didn't even have to remove it, but my regular doc said to do so just in case.

Here are my worries:

1. I will not be put out fully and will be awake and can feel everything but no one will know. People will say its impossible, but they also say that about waking up in the middle of surgery and I know thats possible, Michael woke up when he was having his tonsils out. 
2. I will be in lots of pain afterwards. I am a big baby.
3. I have a REALLY sensitive stomach and terrible pill taker. I am afraid the pain killers are going to make me sick to my stomach and be impossible to swallow. 

I am a giant worry wort. Prob a good thing I am not suppose to eat/drink anything after midnight since I will be to nervous to do so anyway. Michael has been really sweet about this whole thing. He just called me asking if I will need anything for when we come home tomorrow (like ginger ale or soup), he has also planned that after our softball games tonight we will go and stuff our faces so I wont be hungry first thing in the morning :) Oh yeah and my surgery is not till 1, I will be STARVING! 

Anyway...wish me luck, pray that my surgeon does a good job and my healing will not be too painful. 

30 Day Photo Challege: Day 9 and 10

I am mixing Day 9 and 10 because it is the same person!


Day 09 - A picture of the person who has gotten you through the most

Day 10 - A picture of the person you do the most ****** up things with

And that would be my hubby to be, my partner in crime!