wedding guilt

I am starting to feel wedding guilt. I am sure most brides have gone through this or at least I kind of hope so. Neither of our parents have a lot of money so we are paying everything ourselves. Not gonna lie, its HARD! My mom wants to help so bad and keeps trying, but I know she doesnt have the money to help and its killing her so of course its killing me.

Maybe my stepdad was right and eloping would of been a smart idea...

Any other brides out there feel like this?